Help Did I miss ovulation or am I jus paranoid?

As you know, generally ovulation is mid cycle, but this can change. Your ovulation can vary each month, by up to a week. The bleeding was probably due to him hitting your cervix, I occasionally have the same thing. Its normal to have lots of creamy white CM before ovulation and not having noticeable EWCM is normal. I used to have very little EWCM, then I started using Robitussin (cough syrup), now I have plenty. Just because you're not seeing EWCM, doesn't mean you're not ovulating. If your BBT is still high, that's a good sign. It generally dips if you haven't conceived. We've been trying for 8 month, TTC is certainly a learning curve! Hope you get your little miracle this month x